Valentine's Day 2011

Sparks Of Insanity By Vinny "Bond" Marini Monday, February 14, 2011

There are many who despise this 'holiday' and just as many or more who look forward to celebrating today with their 'Valentine'.

This from wikipedia:
The day is named after one or more early Christian martyrs, Saint Valentine, and was established by Pope Gelasius I in 496 AD. It was deleted from the Roman calendar of saints in 1969 by Pope Paul VI, but its religious observance is still permitted. It is traditionally a day on which lovers express their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery, and sending greeting cards (known as "valentines"). The day first became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.

This more in-depth explanation comes from
The history of Valentine's Day — and its patron saint — is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.

One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men — his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.

According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first "valentine" greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl — who may have been his jailor's daughter — who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed "From your Valentine," an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.

While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial — which probably occurred around 270 A.D — others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to "christianize" celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.

To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.

The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman "lottery" system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February — Valentine's Day — should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.

In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.

Well, whether you celebrate or I send all my love to my Valentine...the lady who stole my heart and soul some 3 plus years ago and became my bride 17 months ago.

If you celebrate, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to you!

If you don't, HAPPY MONDAY!

No show tonight due to my deciding I wanted to spend the evening with my gal...If you haven't, check out my interview with the International Blues Challenge winners, The Lionel Young Band

10 Of Your Sparks

  1. Dad Vince Says:
  2. I met your Mom at a Valentine's Day Party in 1948. That's 63 years ago.And they said it wouldn't last!

  3. CiCi Says:
  4. That is a good way to put it. Happy Valentines Day if you celebrate it and Happy Monday if you don't. You should be a politician. Ha.
    The picture of you and Nancy is so sweet. Enjoy your time together for Valentines Day.

  5. Travis Cody Says:
  6. I've been indifferent to Valentines Day in the past. This year I already arranged with Pam's assistant to have our traditional yellow rose sitting in Pam's mail slot at the front desk. And then there are some other special things throughout the day.

    And because I can be a pretty sneaky bastard...and a grateful one...Pam helped me arrange something special for her assistant, because the gal has always been there for both of us.

    Shhhh...that's all supposed to be a seekrit!!

  7. DAD: What did they know!

    TECHNOBABE: thanks..I tell it like it is, people would hate me! Enjoy your Valentine's Day also

    TRAVIS: I will keep the secret that Ms. Pam has churned in you a new spirit...and that is a GOOD thing!

  8. Jay Says:
  9. It started out as a Holy Day and has ended up being a "holy crap that necklace is expensive!" day. ;)

  10. Coco Bondo Says:
  11. ...where's my chocolate??...

  12. I, for one, would NOT want to be slapped by goat hides dripping in blood. But that's just me, so if others get off on it, then, hey? Who am I to condemn? ;P

  13. JAY: You Sir have a way of expressing things that constantly amazes are one funny dude

    COCO: What? Where are my coconuts?

    DESERT: Cow hides instead?

  14. Dana Says:
  15. Happy Valentine's Day to you and Nancy!

  16. Tug Says:
  17. Happy Valentine's Day Vinny & Nancy!


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